No One Should Die In Avoidable Pain

There are moments in life when words fail, when the reality of what people endure is so shocking that it stops you in your tracks. One of those moments came for me while watching heart-wrenching videos shared at the Touch of Teal Soiree. A wife recounted the final hours of her husband’s life—denied pain medication as he lay dying because of concerns over addiction. Let that sink in. A man in his final moments, suffering beyond words, and his comfort was compromised in the name of addiction prevention. It’s almost too outrageous to believe, but it happened right here, in our community.
This man, who deserved peace, who deserved dignity, was failed. And it’s not an isolated case. The lack of proper palliative care in Mackay is leaving families shattered, forced to watch their loved ones pass in unbearable pain. As Trudy Crowley Foundation ambassador Earl Neilsen pointed out, a local radio DJ’s dogs received more humane treatment in their final hours than some of the cancer patients in our region. That comparison, while brutal, speaks volumes. It is unacceptable.
I won’t lie, watching these videos broke me. Keeping it together was a challenge. The grief, the helplessness, the unimaginable suffering these families have faced—how can we, as a society, allow this to continue? Over the coming weeks, we’ll be sharing these stories with you. They are raw, emotional, and, yes, incredibly difficult to hear. But they are important. These stories need to be told if we are to change the future of palliative care in this region, just as Trudy Crowley intended.
In this edition, we share the celebratory moments of this year’s Touch of Teal Soiree on pages 6-7.
No one should face the end of their life in pain.
No family should have to witness their loved one suffering because the care they need isn’t available.
It’s time for a change, and it’s time we demand better.
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Amanda

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